As our lives spiral out of control during a crisis or loss it seems impossible to believe that humor and hope have any place in our lives. We are so caught up in dealing with the situation at hand and often so angry or depressed that anyone who tries to cheer us up or make us laugh is treated with disgust and even contempt. “How dare they? Don’t they realize what I’m going through???” we ask.
Those questions are legitimate questions to ask as we deal with adverse situations…and rightfully so.
Healing from crises and loss takes time. And that healing and grief process is different for each of us. And sometimes it may not ever end.
But I do know this. There are resources available to help us. One of those resources is humor.
At some point in time after a crisis or loss, most of us can begin to move on. And when we do, we can find humor in life once again….and even laugh.
I cannot begin to understand the type of pain you are experiencing in your life, or may have previously experienced, but I can attempt to offer a brief bit of humor in the form of the “Punchlines” section of this website. Our cartoon characters, Simon and Specs can help us (OK … maybe or maybe not … especially if you do not like puns!). I have also created 2 new characters: Hope, the cat, and Harry, the dog. Together with Simon and Specs, Hope and Harry will perhaps give us a few things to smile about.

In addition to some major updates to the Punchlines’ web page and this September blog, I have also included a couple of brief book summaries on the Book Summaries page (Hope Rising: How the Science of Hope Can Change Your Life and What Doesn’t Kill Us: The New Psychology of Posttraumatic Growth) … both books are notable because they highlight the paths we can take as individuals to help others as well as ourselves find strength and courage to move forward with hope.
“Whenever we feel trapped in the pain of today, hope reminds us we need not be there forever.” – Casey Gwinn & Chan Hellman – Hope Rising
Adversity in life is NOT optional, but your response to it is! Hang on to Hope!
Gregory Charles Reynolds